Chapter Seven: Dysmaturity: Developmental Timeline Versus Chronological Age
Discover why we should use Adaptive Skills over IQ when determining the level of need for our kids.

Key Takeaways for Parents/Caregivers

Developmental vs Chronological Age
Dysmaturity describes a gap between a child’s developmental and chronological age, especially in social, emotional, and executive functioning skills

Developmental Timeline
The term “developmental timeline” is being adopted to reduce stigma, but both terms are used in this chapter

Dysmaturity - Brain Development Pace
Dysmaturity is not a behavioral choice or due to poor parenting; it reflects a brain developing at its own pace

Common Trait
This phenomenon is common, affecting hundreds of millions of neurodiverse children worldwide.

Emotional Maturity
Children with dysmaturity may appear much younger than their age in some areas while being age-appropriate or advanced in others

Emotional Dysregulation
Symptoms include emotional dysregulation, impulsivity, difficulty with independence, and overly naïve or gullible behavior

Support not Discipline
Dysmaturity requires support, not discipline; punishment is ineffective and can be harmful

Situational Immaturity
Immaturity is situational and skill-based, whereas dysmaturity is a developmental lag outside the child’s control

Modeling Emotional Regulation
Modeling “thinking aloud” helps children learn emotional regulation and problem-solving by providing real-time examples

Setting Expectations
Setting expectations based on developmental, not chronological, age reduces frustration and builds confidence

Brain Region Impact
Brain regions like the corpus callosum, cerebellum, and white matter tracts contribute to uneven development and dysmaturity

Supportive Environment
A supportive environment that honors both developmental and chronological ages empowers children to thrive at their own pace
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