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What Are Social Cues?

Social cues are nonverbal and verbal signals that guide interactions and communication, including facial expressions, tone of voice, body language, and social context awareness. Neurodiverse individuals, particularly those with ASD, ADHD, FASD, and trauma histories, often struggle with interpreting, responding to, and using social cues effectively, leading to misunderstandings, social challenges, and difficulty forming relationships. These difficulties are rooted in differences in brain development and connectivity.

Social Cues Assessment and Response Matrix

Setting Recognition

Environment Common Social Cues
Home • Family routines • Informal interactions • Emotional expressions
School • Peer interactions • Teacher instructions • Group dynamics
Community • Public behaviors • Stranger interactions • Social boundaries

Response Framework

Social Cue Type Recognition Signs Support Needs
Non-verbal • Body language • Facial expressions • Personal space • Missing subtle cues
Verbal • Tone of voice • Conversation flow • Turn-taking • Literal interpretation • Literal interpretation
Emotional • Mood recognition • Empathy • Social context • Misreading emotions

Intervention Levels

Level Signs
Basic • Simple cue recognition • Basic interactions • Supervised settings
Advanced • Subtle cue detection • Natural interactions • Independent navigation

“Using This Matrix:

    1. Start by observing your child in each environment (Home, School, Community)
    2. Note which types of social cues (Non-verbal, Verbal, Emotional) present the biggest challenges
    3. Identify your child’s current intervention level (Basic, Intermediate, Advanced)
    4. Use this information to guide which interventions will be most helpful

Note: Your child may be at different levels across different settings or types of social cues. This variance is completely normal for our children and can help us target support where it’s needed most.”