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Symptoms of Dysmaturity

Summary of Overlapping Diagnoses

Symptom Category ASD ADHD FASD Trauma
Emotional outbursts
Social immaturity
Impulse control issues
Risky behavior
Naïve/gullible
Poor cause-effect thinking
Need for constant supervision
Literal thinking
Executive function struggles
Regression under stress

Key:

( = Common, = Less common but possible )

Balancing Development and Dignity

Domain Level Support Strategy Dignity Maintenance
Understanding
  • Meet at developmental age
  • Break down complex concepts
  • Present at chronological age
  • Use age-appropriate examples
Communication
  • Simplify when needed
  • Provide visual supports
  • Use age-appropriate tone
  • Respect teen perspectives
Expectations
  • Set at ability level
  • Create achievable goals
  • Maintain teen respect
  • Acknowledge effort appropriately
Environment
  • Adjust for safety
  • Provide necessary supports
  • Keep age-appropriate appearance
  • Create teen-friendly spaces

Note: Strategies should be adjusted based on individual needs and situations.

Success Tip: Focus on building bridges between developmental needs and chronological age dignity.

As we have stated, supporting your child with dysmaturity means constantly bridging two worlds of their developmental and chronological ages. Success comes from supporting our kiddos’ unique developmental journey, not pushing them to “catch up.” We encourage you to never lose sight of their ultimate capacity for growth.